I've still got a couple of days of holidays before I'll be back at work, so I thought I'd do a post summarising how I'm spanked... You may have gotten some of this from reading my stories, but I'll put it down in a more concise way now.
Position?
- These days Pam spanks OTK for most spankings. We went through a period where Pam was spanking me on all fours (good for applying the cane & naughty stick), but reverted to the traditional OTK a couple of years ago. However, Pam will put me on all fours for the long cane sometimes.
Implements?
- Generally, while I'm either undressing or waiting in the corner, Pam will reach into the toolbox and grab a bunch of implements. Typically, we're talking between four and six implements. Once they're out, unless her arm gets sore or I'm utterly bawling, she'll use all of them. If she picks out a smaller number of implements, she will use one of her favourites twice.
- Her favourite implements are big wooden spoons and the OTK cane. These get the most use. She'll generally also use either a hairbrush or one of our wooden paddles in an over-the-knee position.
- Pam will start out with a hand spanking as warm up. Her hand stings but won't produce tears - it's just to get my bottom ready for the real spanking. I've only been given hand-only spankings twice ever: the first spanking she ever gave me and another spanking on holidays in Switzerland when we didn't pack any implements. In the latter spanking, she actually managed to get me crying from just her hand, but that's worth a post of its own one day.
- I've only not received a hand spanking warm-up a couple of times when she was super pissed off and started off with a cold caning. Our long cane is reserved for more serious punishments.
- Pam will often use her hand again in the middle or end of the spanking. It's pretty effective if I'm already crying.
- Our Implement List:
- 2 x big wooden spoons - these blister my bottom more than a brush!
- 1 x OTK cane; 1 x medium-size cane; 1 x long cane
- 1 x wooden OTK cherry wood paddle
- 1 x ruler and a ruler paddle
- 1 x spoon-shaped paddle
- 1 x heavy OTK wooden paddle (Obey Your Wife paddle)
- 1 x short tawse that can be used OTK (stings!)
- 1 x leather school strap that can be used OTK
- 1 x floppy rubber paddle (stings!)
- 1 x devil's braid (silicone thing - not that severe but very quiet)
- 1 x heavy rubber paddle with holes - the Cry Baby (super stingy!)
- 1 x naughty stick with "I've Been Very Naughty" on it (super stingy!)
How Long/Hard?
Pam gives long spankings that are 10 to 15 minutes in duration. She generally doesn't spank full force until near the end (the finale) but the earlier spanks are still hard and effective. Pam's spanking style is more long and relentless, slow-cooking my bottom, breaking down any defences, and getting me crying. She blisters my entire bottom, not just the sit spots, ensuring I'll feel it even standing up the next day (especially in tight pants!).
Pam will usually give between 30 to 80 smacks with each implement before switching to a new one, but sometimes she'll give more with one implement that seems to be giving her a good reaction. The OTK cane is always given full force, often in sixes, and a real tear-jerker.
Pam will usually rub my bottom during the spanking, but that is for her enjoyment, not mine (I keep fit with cycling/gym and she says I have a very spankable bottom :) ). She'll scold quietly, ask me questions about my future behaviour, and make promises about how sore and sorry I'm going to be by the time she's done. The spankings are given with a loving but strict demeanor.
A spanking from Pam does not always end with me crying my eyes out, though tears are the usual result of any trip over her lap (at least tears). She'll stop when she feels I've learned my lesson, and in particular, when she thinks I won't be able to sit comfortably for days. The spanking may end with me in tears, quietly sobbing, or I could be completely bawling my eyes out.
Generally, the spanking won't go much longer once I'm bawling my eyes out, though Pam will always add a little more 'just to be sure'. There have been a few notable exceptions when spankings have been given for real offenses and I've bawled for half the duration.
Toward the end of the spanking, I'll probably be arm-locked and getting a good, harder finale that can seem like an entire spanking by itself. This is a Leda Lady/Strict Mom style spanking of maybe 50 to 100 smacks - I'm normally beyond counting by this stage. If I'm already in tears, the finale will have me bawling my eyes out.
She has even been strict enough to sentence me to an extra spanking if I've done too much squirming and made it difficult for her to spank me properly.
When Pam is done, I'm a contrite, well-spanked husband.
We have no safe word. The idea makes no sense to me. Pam is punishing me with my willing pre-spanking consent. The worse that could happen is I'd get a spanking that's "too hard" or causes too many bruises, both of which are minor inconveniences. And if that's what Pam thinks I deserve, I deserve it. If I wanted this discipline to stop, we would stop.
Afterwards, we'll always kiss and cuddle. I will thank her verbally and apologise again if it was for a real offense. If so, she'll probably tell me I deserved it :) We might make love but not always. The spanking might have been the main event. Pam only uses corner time pre-spanking and not always.
The Next Day
Sitting is always difficult for two to three days after a spanking from Pam. I'm likely to have blisters and there might be some minor bruising. There could be some welts from the cane, particularly if she's been slightly off target and hit the upper thigh.
I will generally let Pam know via an SMS how difficult it is to sit down, which will be greeted enthusiastically by my wife. She loves to know that it is hard to sit and that I'm thinking of her all day. On the odd occasion when my bottom is not particularly sore, I actually find it disappointing. Though some days, after a particularly hard spanking, my bottom can be so thoroughly blistered it is very hard to function normally.
The spanking hurts like hell at the time, but I will eroticise it before and for weeks afterwards. I will remember particularly hard spankings for weeks or even months... and never once have I thought I got "too much".
However, I will honestly try to avoid another spanking while my bottom is still blistered, though it doesn't always save me. Certainly, there is no 'slack' given - If I need one, I get one. I've even been sentenced to a second, follow-up spanking the following night... with a whole day to dread it.
I love my wife and like to think of her as the best and strictest spanker in the world :)
