Remember to be Good

 I received a quick spanking from my wife just over a week ago. It was the night before I left for a work trip. Nothing was said until we were in bed. 

Pam rolled over and cupped my bottom. "I'm going to have to give you a spanking before you leave. A reminder to behave yourself. Aren't I?"

I was completely taken by surprise. "Ah... I guess." My thoughts had immediately gone to an uncomfortable plane trip and several hours of squirming on a sore rear during tomorrow's workshop.

Pam soon had me naked and over her lap. She started with a wooden spoon, thankfully one of the thinner ones with more sting than lasting bite. She peppered me with dozens upon dozens of smacks, all the while reminding me to behave myself while I was away.

Then she switched to our spoon-shaped paddle. This is a powerful implement, the thud of a paddle but able to be delivered with enough velocity to sting at the moment. After several minutes of Pam spanking my bare bottom, I was in tears and promising to be extremely good while I was away.

"Don't think I'm going to stop," Pam said, noticing my crying. "I want to make sure you're thinking of your wife every time you sit while you're away."

"I will, Ma'am," I croaked.

Not pausing her spanking, Pam said, "You're going for drinks tomorrow night. Aren't you? I want you sitting on a hard wooden chair at the bar. Send me photos of it!"

"Yes, Ma'am."

At last, with me sobbing over her lap, Pam put down the spoon paddle. "Don't think we're done yet. There's still the finale." She rubbed the next implement over my sore bottom. "Do you know what this is?"

"The cane, Ma'am."

"Yes, it is. Let's see how good I can make this finale." 

Then she began to whip the OTK cane down on my naked cheeks, achieving a thin whistle with every stroke. She had chosen the cane that is covered in rubber, an extremely painful implement from the sadly defunct cane-iac's red line collection of super-painful implements. My bottom would be crisscrossed with welts tomorrow.

"How many days are you gone for?"

"Seven, Ma'am."

Pam finished with seven of the best, leaving me crying and promising to be a 'good boy' while away from home. Afterward, we kissed and cuddled. It was late and we were too tired for love making. We lay on our sides, Pam behind me. She cuddled up, rubbing my sore bottom. "Mm. It's hot. I hope this is very sore for the next couple of days. Remember your wife and this little lesson every time you sit."

And I certainly did...

Maintenance Spanking

 It's currently Wednesday afternoon. I'm sitting on a bottom that still itches a little despite the fact Pam spanked me on Sunday night. I have said before that Pam can give quite a spanking! 

It started with a text message. Pam had gone for a shower, and I was wandering the house tidying up and preparing for the next day. My phone buzzed - odd for this time of night. I looked down... and the first few words sucked my breath away.

"I am in bed waiting for you to come and lay your bare ass across my lap. I suggest you don't make me wait too long."

I was getting a spanking! No forewarning at all. I wasn't sure if I'd done anything, but I quickly locked up the house then cleaned my teeth. Although I tried to be fast, it must have been about 3 or 4 minutes between reading the text message and my arrival in our bedroom.

"Finally," Pam said. "I've been waiting." She was sitting up on the bed with her legs out. A pile of implements lay beside her.

Quickly, I dropped my pants and lay over Pam's lap. She started with a long hand spanking. From her scolding it was clear this was a 'mind your wife' maintenance spanking for no reason in particular. That would not make sitting tomorrow much easier.

After getting my bottom toasty, she switched to her "50 Shades of Gray Spanking Ruler". You can still get these on eBay/Amazon. She has bared used this ruler, but I soon found that it stings a LOT when applied hard... and Pam was really bringing it down with sharp cracks. She soon figured out I was dreading each smack. But that only made her tease me by rubbing it around my bottom, resting it, smacking with it... not letting me know when it was coming.

"I like this ruler," Pam said. "It really stings. I'll have to remember it."

Then Pam switched to her favourite wooden spoon. She gave me about fifty smacks with it before commenting, "This doesn't make as nice a noise as the ruler, but it's thick. Perfect for flogging naughty boys."

By the time she finished with the spoon, I was almost in tears and Pam had only used two implements. She rubbed the distinctive rough surface of Mr Floppy, one of our rubber spanking paddles against my bottom. 

"I'll be good," I pleaded.

"You will be by the time I'm done."

Pam then carried out a thorough whacking with the rubber paddle, covering every inch of my bottom. It went on for several minutes. Dimly, I realised that her shoulder must now be entirely healed. At last she finished, though I had tears in my eyes. I sniffled an apology.

"That's better," Pam said, switching implements. "Don't think I'm done with you yet."

Something wooden rested against my burning bare bottom. "What's that, ma'am?" I asked.

"The hairbrush. I'm going to finish with fifty."

I knew which hairbrush too - the long-handed one that was more like a bath brush.

Then the finale began. Pam spanked me hard and fast. I vaguely heard her counting but by the end was too busy sobbing to keep my own count going. She did not pause; she did not slacken as the spanking went on. She delivered all fifty spanks good and hard. When she was done, I lay contritely over her lap, quietly sobbing.

"You can get up now," Pam said after a time.

After all, Pam now desired a proper 'thank-you', which I'm pleased to say resulted in a thunderous orgasm for my wife.

BTW - Next day, when I was putting the implements away, I discovered my wife had the long cane out too. She must have decided I'd had enough, so I was spared its use :)

How I'm Spanked...

 I've still got a couple of days of holidays before I'll be back at work, so I thought I'd do a post summarising how I'm spanked... You may have gotten some of this from reading my stories, but I'll put it down in a more concise way now.

Position?

• These days Pam spanks OTK for most spankings. We went through a period where Pam was spanking me on all fours (good for applying the cane & naughty stick), but reverted to the traditional OTK a couple of years ago. However, Pam will put me on all fours for the long cane sometimes.

Implements?

• Generally, while I'm either undressing or waiting in the corner, Pam will reach into the toolbox and grab a bunch of implements. Typically, we're talking between four and six implements. Once they're out, unless her arm gets sore or I'm utterly bawling, she'll use all of them. If she picks out a smaller number of implements, she will use one of her favourites twice.
• Her favourite implements are big wooden spoons and the OTK cane. These get the most use. She'll generally also use either a hairbrush or one of our wooden paddles in an over-the-knee position.
• Pam will start out with a hand spanking as warm up. Her hand stings but won't produce tears - it's just to get my bottom ready for the real spanking. I've only been given hand-only spankings twice ever: the first spanking she ever gave me and another spanking on holidays in Switzerland when we didn't pack any implements. In the latter spanking, she actually managed to get me crying from just her hand, but that's worth a post of its own one day.
• I've only not received a hand spanking warm-up a couple of times when she was super pissed off and started off with a cold caning. Our long cane is reserved for more serious punishments.
  
• Pam will often use her hand again in the middle or end of the spanking. It's pretty effective if I'm already crying.
• Our Implement List:
• 2 x big wooden spoons - these blister my bottom more than a brush!
• 1 x OTK cane; 1 x medium-size cane; 1 x long cane
• 1 x wooden OTK cherry wood paddle
• 1 x ruler and a ruler paddle
• 1 x spoon-shaped paddle
  
• 1 x heavy OTK wooden paddle (Obey Your Wife paddle)
• 1 x short tawse that can be used OTK (stings!)
• 1 x leather school strap that can be used OTK
  
• 1 x floppy rubber paddle (stings!)
• 1 x devil's braid (silicone thing - not that severe but very quiet)
  
• 1 x heavy rubber paddle with holes - the Cry Baby (super stingy!)
• 1 x naughty stick with "I've Been Very Naughty" on it (super stingy!)
  

 

How Long/Hard?

Pam gives long spankings that are 10 to 15 minutes in duration. She generally doesn't spank full force until near the end (the finale) but the earlier spanks are still hard and effective. Pam's spanking style is more long and relentless, slow-cooking my bottom, breaking down any defences, and getting me crying. She blisters my entire bottom, not just the sit spots, ensuring I'll feel it even standing up the next day (especially in tight pants!).

Pam will usually give between 30 to 80 smacks with each implement before switching to a new one, but sometimes she'll give more with one implement that seems to be giving her a good reaction. The OTK cane is always given full force, often in sixes, and a real tear-jerker.

Pam will usually rub my bottom during the spanking, but that is for her enjoyment, not mine (I keep fit with cycling/gym and she says I have a very spankable bottom :) ). She'll scold quietly, ask me questions about my future behaviour, and make promises about how sore and sorry I'm going to be by the time she's done. The spankings are given with a loving but strict demeanor.

A spanking from Pam does not always end with me crying my eyes out, though tears are the usual result of any trip over her lap (at least tears). She'll stop when she feels I've learned my lesson, and in particular, when she thinks I won't be able to sit comfortably for days. The spanking may end with me in tears, quietly sobbing, or I could be completely bawling my eyes out. 

Generally, the spanking won't go much longer once I'm bawling my eyes out, though Pam will always add a little more 'just to be sure'. There have been a few notable exceptions when spankings have been given for real offenses and I've bawled for half the duration. 

Toward the end of the spanking, I'll probably be arm-locked and getting a good, harder finale that can seem like an entire spanking by itself. This is a Leda Lady/Strict Mom style spanking of maybe 50 to 100 smacks - I'm normally beyond counting by this stage. If I'm already in tears, the finale will have me bawling my eyes out.

She has even been strict enough to sentence me to an extra spanking if I've done too much squirming and made it difficult for her to spank me properly.

When Pam is done, I'm a contrite, well-spanked husband.

We have no safe word. The idea makes no sense to me. Pam is punishing me with my willing pre-spanking consent. The worse that could happen is I'd get a spanking that's "too hard" or causes too many bruises, both of which are minor inconveniences. And if that's what Pam thinks I deserve, I deserve it. If I wanted this discipline to stop, we would stop.

Afterwards, we'll always kiss and cuddle. I will thank her verbally and apologise again if it was for a real offense. If so, she'll probably tell me I deserved it :) We might make love but not always. The spanking might have been the main event. Pam only uses corner time pre-spanking and not always.

The Next Day

Sitting is always difficult for two to three days after a spanking from Pam. I'm likely to have blisters and there might be some minor bruising. There could be some welts from the cane, particularly if she's been slightly off target and hit the upper thigh.

I will generally let Pam know via an SMS how difficult it is to sit down, which will be greeted enthusiastically by my wife. She loves to know that it is hard to sit and that I'm thinking of her all day. On the odd occasion when my bottom is not particularly sore, I actually find it disappointing. Though some days, after a particularly hard spanking, my bottom can be so thoroughly blistered it is very hard to function normally.

The spanking hurts like hell at the time, but I will eroticise it before and for weeks afterwards. I will remember particularly hard spankings for weeks or even months... and never once have I thought I got "too much". 

However, I will honestly try to avoid another spanking while my bottom is still blistered, though it doesn't always save me. Certainly, there is no 'slack' given - If I need one, I get one. I've even been sentenced to a second, follow-up spanking the following night... with a whole day to dread it.

I love my wife and like to think of her as the best and strictest spanker in the world :)

New House, New Spankings

It's been over a year since the last update on this blog, and any followers probably thought it had gone dormant for good. But Pam has still been spanking me - However, we've been restricted by the house we were renting being extremely difficult for carrying out noisy spankings (too close to neighbours, zero sound-proofing provided by the walls). So there were spankings, but not as many.

The good news is we recently moved into a new house - one that is ideal for spanking. This has co-coincided with wife's frozen shoulder finally 'almost unfreezing'. So, I was spanked three times just in December. 

These were as follows:

1. Just the Hairbrush - This was the first spanking at the new house. We'd only been in for a couple of days so we hadn't put all the implements in easy reach, so Pam gave me a spanking only with her big nuwest-style hairbrush. It was a 'mind your wife' maintenance spanking to make up for missed opportunities at the last house, so probably covered a number of issues. Pam really let me have it too - after a couple of minutes my eyes were brimming with tears and I was squirming over her lap... I remember thinking, "My bottom is on fire; I'm never going to sit again; surely, she is nearly done", but she was less than halfway through!
2. Bruised & Sobbing - This was the hardest spanking so far at the new house. Pam used a wooden spoon (twice), wooden hairbrush, the Cry Baby rubber paddle, and the OTK cane. Pam has mastered OTK canes. She really doesn't need a full-length cane. In her strict, school teacher hand, the OTK cane whistles down, leaving welts and a contrite husband. I probably got about 30 hard strokes. By the time she'd finished with the cane, I was sobbing, but the cane was only the 'middle of the spanking' implement. I hadn't even had the hairbrush yet. Afterward, sitting was painful for two days, and I could still feel it on the third. Pam knows how to spank!
3. Wooden Spatula - This was a gift from Pam for xmas - she wrote Merry XMas on it too. She had to give it to me early as we've had house guests over Xmas/New Year (and so no spankings were possible). This was the mildest of the three spankings as the implement was not super effective, though Pam compensated with a long spanking, alternating cheeks for what felt like a very long time. There were no tears, but plenty of squirming in chairs the next day.

 

2024 promises to include a lot more spanking action. Pam's shoulder is much stronger now and we have better sound proofing in the new house (and we're miles from the neighbours). 

We have a new hobby too - pickleball - and besides it being highly erotic watching Pam smack the ball hard (a smacking with a pickleball bat might be in my future, though being a plastic bat, it would probably be loud & ineffective), I think it's making her arm stronger too.... and least, that's what my bottom is telling me.

In the aftermath of spanking number two above, I confided to Pam that when she is especially strict and spanks me until I'm properly crying, for some time afterwards I feel more 'obedient' and willing to do things she wants me to do that I'm not so keen on. i.e. I want to "Obey My Wife" like our engraved paddle says. 

Every spanko has heard the maxim (and truism) “a spanking doesn’t even start until the crying does” but I've never actually voiced this to Pam before. Basically, I wanted to but didn’t quite tell her she should always try to spank me until I'm crying my eyes out (which is true even if the spanking part is super painful) as this not only makes me a better husband, but the experience is more erotic (afterwards anyway!) and leaves me thinking lovingly about my wife for many weeks. 

But when I'm already so lucky to have a spanking wife, one doesn't want to appear at all critical! Especially when Pam's shoulder has been so bad, we've had limited opportunities... and my poor, poor bottom :)

However, I should probably remind her about this blog so she reads this :)

Going to be spanked tonight

 My wife has sentenced me to a spanking tonight. Last night, before going to sleep, she said, "I'm going to spank you tomorrow night. That will give you something to think about tomorrow."

 It started when we went out to dinner on Friday night. My wife decided to enforce a no-device rule on our daughter (without warning) - this resulted in a public meltdown. Tired and frustrated, I questioned the decision, saying that reaction was about what I expected. Pam was not happy because I questioned her in front of our daughter instead of supporting her decision and raising any questions later.

So now the hours count down until my bottom gets blistered. Since we have a house guest, I'm likely to receive all the "nasty but quiet" implements, particularly the cane. Yes, my school teacher wife is going to soundly cane me tonight... and since she won't be able to use her hairbrushes, it's likely to be a lot more than "six of the best".

I am nervous but excited :)